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See The pattern<\/h5>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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Recognize what keeps repeating beneath the situation you’re facing.<\/p>\n

Not just what is happening<\/strong>, but what may be driving it.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n

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Question The Origin<\/h5>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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Challenge the assumption that makes the pattern seem necessary, inevitable or true.<\/p>\n

Sometimes the most important question is the one you haven’t thought to ask.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n

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Choose Consiously<\/h5>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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Once you can see what is influencing your choices, you can decide whether it still deserves that power. Not the choice you’re supposed to make.<\/p>\n

Your choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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How It Works<\/h1>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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You Can’t Question a Pattern You Can’t See<\/h2>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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We inherit maps for nearly everything: how relationships are supposed to work, what success should look like, what makes someone a good partner, parent, employee, or person. We inherit ideas about when we should stay, when we should\n leave, what is responsible, what is selfish, and what is normal.<\/p>\n

Some of those maps serve us well. Others were handed to us so early, or repeated so often, that we never stopped to ask whether they were actually ours.<\/p>\n

We keep following them long after they stop making sense.<\/p>\n

See The Patterns exists to help you recognize the patterns shaping your life, understand where they came from, and decide which ones are still worth following.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n

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The Hidden Patterns Method<\/h1>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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The Surface Problem Usually Isn’t the Whole Problem<\/h2>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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You don’t need months of analysis to begin noticing a pattern.<\/p>\n

Sometimes one situation, a few carefully chosen questions and a different perspective are enough to reveal something that’s been hiding in plain sight.<\/p>\n

Our Pattern Scan is designed to help you begin there.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n

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What is happening right now?<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n

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THE PATTERN<\/h5>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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What keeps repeating?<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n

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What has to be believed for the pattern to keep making sense?<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n

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Meet Brady & Shelly<\/h2>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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Why do people keep living inside patterns they never consciously chose?\n
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Shelly<\/h4>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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Co-Founder | Pattern Guide<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n

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